Celebrating Shirley Smith Bailey: A Legacy of Sewing and Love
Shirley Smith Bailey, a beloved figure in the sewing community, passed away peacefully at her home in Winston-Salem. Her life’s journey brimmed with a deep love for creative arts, teaching, and family, leaving a lasting impression on everyone lucky enough to know her.
From her early days learning quilting from her grandmother to managing successful Bernina sewing machine shops, Shirley made waves in the sewing world in ways that felt both personal and far-reaching. Honestly, her story is worth a closer look—she really shaped the sewing community in her own unique way.
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Early Life and Passion for Sewing
Born on August 4, 1948, in Forest City, NC, Shirley Smith Bailey found her passion for handmade arts early on. Her grandmother, Bertie Hill, patiently taught her the ins and outs of quilting and machine sewing—skills Shirley treasured and refined over the years.
When Shirley was just 12, her mother passed away. That loss pushed her into a caretaker role for her younger siblings, and it’s hard not to admire the responsibility and resilience she showed even as a kid.
Educational Achievements
After graduating from East Rutherford High School in 1966, Shirley became the first in her family to earn a college degree. She finished at Limestone College in 1970 with a bachelor’s in English.
Her academic years were impressive—she earned excellent grades and ran track as a hurdler. Later, she taught fourth graders at Wingate Elementary, blending her love for teaching and creativity in the classroom.
Family Life and Creative Pursuits
In 1974, Shirley met James Harley Bailey, who quickly became her lifelong partner and best friend. They got married within a few months, and soon after welcomed their children, Harley and Emily.
Their home buzzed with creativity—Shirley was always cooking something delicious, sewing intricate quilts, making garments, cross-stitching, and crafting costumes and christening gowns. Her kids learned more than just basic skills; she passed on her love for reading, creativity, and even a bit of grammar obsession.
Community Involvement
Shirley dove into community life. She served as PTA president, led the church high school youth group, and volunteered as an audiology testing technician.
She didn’t just help her own family—she worked in local sewing shops and helped identify hearing loss in children, making a difference in ways that really mattered.
Entrepreneurial Spirit and Sew Original
Once her kids left home, Shirley’s entrepreneurial drive took center stage. She managed Bernina sewing machine shops in Charlotte, and in 2002, co-owned and ran two Bernina stores in Boone and Winston-Salem called Sew Original.
Her passion for sewing and teaching showed in every part of her business. She built a genuine community around her stores, connecting with people through her teaching, creativity, leadership, humor, and warmth.
Impact on the Sewing Community
Sew Original wasn’t just a store—it became a gathering place for sewing lovers to learn, share, and create together. Shirley’s dedication fostered a nurturing, creative environment.
She inspired so many people to pursue sewing and creative arts. It’s tough to measure the full impact she had, but it’s safe to say she left her mark.
Legacy and Family
In her last 20 years, Shirley poured her heart into her grandchildren, who called her Bertie. She adored them—knitting and sewing gifts, cheering them on at performances, and sharing her lifetime of skills.
Her legacy lives on through her family, friends, and everyone she taught or helped in the community. What a life, right?
Remembering Shirley Bailey
Shirley Smith Bailey meant so much to so many people. She was a beloved wife, mom, Bertie, aunt, close friend, and leader.
Her quick laugh and her knack for really listening made life around her genuinely fun. Shirley’s creativity, intelligence, and curiosity added a spark that everyone noticed.
You’ll find her memory in the quilts she made and the lessons she shared. The love she gave to those close to her lingers, too.
There’ll be a celebration of her life from 4-6 PM on Monday, May 18, 2026, at Sew Original in Winston-Salem. If you’re thinking of honoring her, consider a memorial to Ryan’s Case for Smiles or Project Buddy Bear of North Carolina.
You can learn more about Shirley Bailey’s life and legacy at the official obituary page.